I like to try new things, even though I am not sure that they are going to work, and even though I suspect that they might not work. Why? Because I want to be sure. The only way you can be sure is if you try it out. Well, that is a truth with modification, because you are also able to learn by observing others. However in observing others you are missing out on one crucial numerical anomaly – YOU. Because the fact is that you are observing someone else do something, however, you might have done it completely differently if you were in their position. And thus – in most cases when I want to try out something new, it is not enough for me to just look at what others have done and how they have fared – I want to do it myself.
And in this process of trying out new things you will encounter many people that have some opinion about what you are doing and whether it is going to work or not. Some are convinced that it is NOT going to work, and these are usually the same people that never dare to change things up or act in their own ideas. These are the naysayers – and their minds are clouded in fears, inferiorities and self-image problems. It is important to NOT listen to these people – because they will sound alluringly certain and assured – however they tend to have no experience about the subject at all. They speak from their fears, that they project unto others in their reality.
Thus – if I want to do and try something new – I will do it. And then – it might end up being a mistake – AND – that is FINE. I have learned huge amounts from mistakes and failures. If I would not allowed myself to follow my heart and do the crazy shit I have had on my mind, I would never have known that they did not work, and I would never have known that this was not my path. Now, I know, I have learned from it – and I have been able to move on – and my next creation will accordingly be more in line with what I want and what could potentially work. What do you think is lurking in the cave of unexplored ideas/visions? That is regret and the thought – ‘what if?’ – what if I just explored this point, what if I went for what I wanted, where would I have been by now?
When I explore life and life it fully there are no room for what-if-thoughts – because – I KNOW what happened.
Unfortunately parents tend to be the biggest naysayers of all – when they should really be the one supporting their child to go out into the world and do what they want. Instead parents caution their child of all the dangers, difficulties, hardships, possible mistakes, and suck the child dry of all aspiration to make something more in this reality. And why? Because the parent is stuck in FEAR – the slow creeping poison that starts eating away at you when you have too much to lose. The child on the other hand has nothing to lose – he/she lives in the moment and the future is full of potential. When you live in the moment, with your breath, you have nothing to lose – and then you can really live.
So let us all explore what we want to explore and stop the naysayers from influencing our decision-making. Life is meant to be lived, failed, won, lost – EXPERIENCED – it is not a competition for who is able to survive the best.
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